We have two fact that really interesting. The first, perhaps because women are more powerful live alone without a partner, and both may be because women live longer than men. Second show that women are actually more powerful (psychologically) and more independent than men, although women had been considered (or consider themselves) are weaker and not independent.
What is that really Feared Men?
One is in the dark or enclosed areas that are the things most feared. What men fear most? Check out the list prepared by Sandra Sedgbeer in his book Sex, Lies & Love.
Divorce, divorce either because of death or separation. Therefore, the initiative for divorce usually come from women. What makes a man finally able to accept the divorce are the two things, namely the belief that he will get more attractive women, and that he would lose face if it refused.
Women. Men scared away from women, more than they can admit. Basically because he does not know what drives women. The fear was reflected, among others, when they make jokes or talk among themselves, which tend to be demeaning women.
Rejection. Men are very afraid to be defeated or eliminated, because it is very embarrassing. So no matter how good any reason for disapproval, male ego means that he was ‘not good enough’.
Do not count. All men feel the need to become leaders. If that is not achieved, at least they want to receive recognition from the immediate surroundings.
Vulnerable. True, men are very afraid of bound and loss of freedom. This makes him very vulnerable. Women who are clever will not attract a man through his stomach, but to respect his need for freedom and life choices.
Confiding. Men do not like looking stupid. That is why they are so hard to trust people, especially women. They worry about being betrayed and disappointed.
Being a dad. Although he is very proud to be a father, but it is at once a source of fear. Being a father, for they are signs could no longer play like a bachelor with no responsibilities. And again, if the wife had children of their own, who will take care of it?
What is really Feared Woman?
It’s no secret. A strong woman to be a threat to men, and smart women intimidating them. But ironically, when the woman opened the dark areas or closed areas, men will know that they need not fear at all. Consider just the source of her fears:
Make men afraid. Women are afraid to make men fear him. Therefore, in the office, organization, and in the household, many women tend to put the brakes on ambition and potential, simply by not making him feel threatened and afraid of him.
Hurt and being used by men. Women are always trying to convince them self that if he had a more slender woman, better, sexier, and more interesting, certainly he will be crazy about him and let him improve the appearance of the man. It was a reflection of his fear of being hurt and exploited men.
All ex-girlfriend. It makes no difference who ended the relationship in the past, or why, a woman who falls in love always wondered if the man she loved still missed his former girlfriend after their breakup.
All lady friends. Because they do not believe in platonic relationships (which are brotherly love) between sexes, women have always put great suspicion towards any female friend of her lover. Although woman has a lot of platonic relationship with her male friends.
Women who do not exist. Women believe that nothing is more attractive to men that her lover, in addition to the shadow of a woman who always dreaming, although his form did not exist.
Her mother. No matter how good the relationship between the man with his mother, women tend to think that there is a secret and one day it will befall them self. But if the man admires her mother, she would accuse him of ‘child mama’.
Pregnant. Women are always worried that her body is fat and unattractive will make their partner stop watching. With so he thought he would be easily attracted to other women she met.
Looks simple, trivial or not make sense to you? But that was the opposite sex.